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In this post, learn some dating tips for men and apply some to strengthen you relationships. 15 Highly-Useful Dating Tips For Men Who Want To Put Their Best Foot Forward. Not all dating advice for men is helpful.


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Much of it is vague, and some of it is just plain wrong. If you’re reading this and nodding your head, we’re glad you’re here. The dating rules for men are, admittedly, different from dating tips for wome n, though they do have some overlap. The list of tips below will make that clearer. For men and women, the potential for a great dating experience starts with you. Let’s take a closer look. Is Dating Harder for Guys Than Women? In some ways, yes. Or it certainly can be. Much depends on widespread preconceptions — or, more accurately, mis conceptions — about gender roles. Take a moment to consider the following stumbling blocks: Many women think it’s 100% the man’s job to make the first move For that reason, they assume if a man isn’t walking up to them, he’s not interested Fewer women know what it means to “drop the handkerchief” in the 21st century So, they settle for a more passive role, which often leads to a stalemate situation Men are often blamed for miscommunication during or after the first date. So, while dating can definitely be scarier for women (in life-or-death ways), it’s not a cakewalk for anyone — except for those who honestly don’t care what happens. But if you didn’t care, you wouldn’t be reading this. How Do Men Get Better at Dating? Getting better at men’s dating takes a real investment of time, energy, and heart. Do the following to improve your dating skills and get the most out of each experience. Get out there more often Treat every date as a learning opportunity Don’t dwell on your mistakes, learn from them Make time for your own interests and pursuits Treat your date as you want her to treat you Be yourself and have fun. 15 Essential Dating Tips for Men. We’ve combed through lists of online dating tips for men to find the ones most likely to help in the 21st century because the rules have changed. But some things haven’t. Read carefully through the following 15 tips and jot down any questions you might have. 1. Be honest — and patient — with yourself. It’s okay to acknowledge that dating is stressful. It’s okay to admit that walking up to someone you find attractive to determine whether the attraction is mutual is terrifying. If she’s showing zero indication that she welcomes your approach, the water is ice cold. Don’t beat yourself up for not diving in. If the water was warm, and you’re now on your first date together, be honest with yourself about your impressions of her and what you’re hoping for. You might already feel invested in making your evening together memorable. Remember, it doesn’t have to go perfectly for you both to enjoy it. 2. Go easy on the liquid courage (or false bravado). Confidence is great. But if you’ve crossed the line into muttonhead territory, it’s hard to find your way back. Overconfidence and fake confidence are both turn-offs. That whole fake-it-till-you-make-it thing only works when you’re still being authentic. If you’re putting on an act to impress someone, sooner or later, the mask will slip. Just telling you to “be yourself” isn’t enough. You’ll want to put your best foot forward and learn all you can about the person you’re meeting. You’ll also want to remind yourself that you'll be okay whatever happens on this date. You don’t need alcohol to become more fun to be around. 3. Pick a place where you feel comfortable. For example, if you don’t drink, don’t hang out in a bar. It’s problematic if you’re a recovering alcoholic and your date wants you to join them on a pub crawl. It's even worse if they keep asking you if you’re serious about not drinking anything with alcohol. Go where you’re more likely to meet someone who shares some of your interests. Consider meeting your date at a local bookstore with a good restaurant nearby if you love books. Go where you’re comfortable, and you’re more likely to feel relaxed and better able to focus on getting to know your date. 4. Get some intel from your female friends. If you’ve got (platonic) women friends, let them know you’ve got a date and ask them for some “free advice.” They might ask you for more details, but they’ll probably take it as a compliment that you value their insights. Keep in mind that even women don’t know how every woman thinks — just as you don’t know what all men think. How boring would it be if all women thought the same thoughts (or all men)? The best you can do is learn what you can from your friends. And be prepared to listen. 5. Make a confident decision. There isn't much worse than the “I don't care, what do you want to do?” back and forth conversation. Women want a man who has confidence in his decisions while being thoughtful and flexible enough to consider his date's desires. If it becomes apparent that she isn't enjoying your venue choice, just smile and say: “This isn't your scene, is it?” You can learn more about your date by finding out why she doesn't like the venue and then suggesting that you can do something else next time. If she doesn’t like where you chose to take her, make up for it by having a great interaction. But if the location is loud or otherwise not suitable for getting to know each other, have the confidence to say, “Let's get out of here and go somewhere we can talk.” 6. Meet in public. Choose a public place for your first date. And never assume your date will want to finish the evening with a drink at your place. Make it a priority to ensure your date feels safe and respected. This is not the time to take risks with her comfort zone. And don’t put her in a position where she has to rely on you for a safe drive home. Unless she knows and trusts you 100% already, this is a predatory move. Always ask if you’re considering a venue that might be inconvenient for her or put her at your mercy. Don’t pressure her to feel safe around you. Give her a reason to. 7. Dress the part. Make sure that you look nice without looking like you're trying too hard — or trying to be someone you're not. Dress for the environment of your date and yourself. Wear something comfortable, and that makes you feel confident. Both the cut and the style of your outfit should fit you. Women notice the small details of your clothes, down to the dirt and wear on your shoes. You want to look presentable, so your date sees you care enough to put in some effort. More Related Articles. 8. Call to confirm. Call your date an hour or so before your date to confirm the time and place. You probably won’t be picking her up, and this way, you’ll both know you’re still planning to meet. This is not the time to ask her, “So, what were you planning to wear?” Trust that she knows how to dress for the venue you’ve chosen (or one you’ve agreed to), and just call to let her know you’re looking forward to seeing her. It lets her know you’re not planning to leave her stranded, wondering if you’ll ever show. Give her that peace of mind. And if she sounds just as excited as you are, you’ve just leveled up your evening. 9. Turn off your phone (during the date). If possible (we recognize that this isn’t practical for every profession), turn off your phone when you’re on a date. At the very least, silence it except for your emergency line. Most phones will allow you to enable a “Do Not Disturb” setting, which can allow calls (only) from specific phone numbers. That way, if it’s a real emergency, you can still respond to it promptly. If it’s not, you can remain blissfully ignorant of the incoming calls and texts until after your date. And they don’t have to know your phone was on the whole time. 10. Keep the conversation lighthearted and fun.