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Okay, I am a 17 year old girl. Since I was about 14 I have only been attracted to older men. And I mean older.



40-60's. I don't find a single guy around my
I'm a young girl attracted to older men. Okay, I am a 17 year old girl. Since I was about 14 I have only been attracted to older men. And I mean older. 40-60's. I don't find a single guy around my age attractive at all and I haven't in forever. At school the only crushes I have developed have been for my teachers. I grew up a fatherless child and was wondering if maybe that's why I have this problem? I mean there's got to be some reason right? If anyone can help me get some answers it would be greatly appreciated. Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question ! A reader, anonymous , writes (28 December 2009): A female reader, anonymous , writes (9 December 2009): A female reader, anonymous , writes (8 December 2009): A female reader, SinaLovesMark + , writes (4 December 2009): i've always been atracted to older men and i totally love grey hair XD some of my friends say i have a father complex coz i've lived with alone with my mom since i was like 4 but in my opinion age doesn't matter if you're in love with someone. it's just a number. so if there's an older man and you like him. hell go for it girl! i'm glad that i'm not the only one liking older men :D. A female reader, anonymous , writes (29 October 2009): A female reader, aspr221 + , writes (22 October 2009): aspr221 is verified as being by the original poster of the question. A reader, anonymous , writes (7 September 2009): Hope this helps! A female reader, anonymous , writes (7 September 2009): A female reader, anonymous , writes (7 September 2009): I'm young but I have always been attracted to much older men, even though my friends would laugh at me for it. Everyone in these posts have really given me hope. A female reader, anonymous , writes (6 September 2009): A female reader, anonymous , writes (5 September 2009): the other day and he asked me about boys. Is that a sign he is interested? Well, I have been attracted to older guys ever since. I don't care for guys my age. They're immature :/ Oh, and I do have a very loving father so I don't think it has anything to do with that. I wish I could be with someone older but my parents would never approve of it. A female reader, anonymous , writes (3 September 2009): A male reader, anonymous , writes (29 August 2009): A female reader, anonymous , writes (28 August 2009): A female reader, anonymous , writes (28 August 2009): I think we just like older men because they are dependable and more mature than guys our age. I think it's supposed to be normal. Right? A female reader, anonymous , writes (26 August 2009): My dad also died when I was 13 and almost an exact year later I met this guy. I'm sure that there must be some kind of connection to father figures and this older men relationship thing. A reader, anonymous , writes (25 August 2009): Age differencce is a beautiful thing :) A male reader, old man + , writes (16 August 2009): In many Asian countries today the young women feel the same way you do and it is common practice for younger women to mate with and marry older men. Older men are believed to be stable, secure, trustworthy, and wiser than younger men and younger women are desired for their ability to reproduce and raise the children to adulthood after the father has passed on, not to mention they are very attractive and desirable. Four to five hundred years ago it was common practice throughout the world. In fact it has only been in the last couple of hundred years that the practice of mating and marrying closer to your own age has become so wide spread in the US and some other countries. Many kings took younger women as their queens or concubines and even in the bible there are references to some of the men taking young brides. Check out some of the Asian dating websites and you will see many, many young women seeking older men, particularly in the Philippines, in Thailand, and inViet Nam. Personally I think it is a shame that people are made to feel that there is something wrong with them for feeling something that is perfectly natural. Those who study human/animal behaviors will tell you that mother nature has endowed men and women with this natural desire/attraction for this older/younger relationships. it is her way of keeping the world populated with human beings sense the man is able to reproduce all the way up until the day he dies while the woman can not reproduce after menopause. It is also a well established fact that young women mature much faster than young men and are thus ready for the responsibilities of relationships, marriage, and child rearing long before younger men are. Young men need to “sow their wild oats” and are not ready for these responsibilities until long after the young woman have been ready. A female reader, anonymous , writes (29 April 2009): im in the same situation, i only seem to be attracted to much older men who are at least 35 lol.