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21 Jun 2025 05:23

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Here is a guide for single Christian women to enjoy life! Single Christian Women’s Guide to Enjoying Life. The one thing I am the proudest of in my life is my life.



That might sound vain to you, but trust me when I tell you that it’s not what you think it is. I’m not rich, and I’m not famous, but I’m blessed. As a Christian single woman, I have not always considered myself blessed. For a long time, I was looking for my worth and fulfillment in all the wrong places – a man, a job, a title. So much so, that I was unhappy. I thought that as long as my marital status said single I can’t be fulfilled. It took a while until I realized that I already had everything I needed. I had flexibility, opportunities, and a healthy dose of self-esteem. My life was full! And even though today’s culture will oftentimes tell you otherwise. Being single has its benefits. All you need to do is to shift your perspective. Christian single woman struggles? I know a lot of you can relate to how I felt. Sometimes the desire and pressure to find a future husband so that you can fit into church culture is depressing. And unfortunately, Christian church leaders have yet to do a better job of acknowledging Christian single women. This is partially the reason why I started this blog in the first place. Because it felt like I was struggling by myself with no one to take my worries to without feeling ashamed. But the truth is you don’t have to struggle as a single girl. There is a way for single Christian women to enjoy this season wholeheartedly. And in this post, I share how to. How can a Christian be happy single? The most important thing to enjoying single life is to understand that no outside circumstance can make you feel good about yourself. Instead of waiting for your life to start once you find Mr. Right, you have to learn to enjoy life in the present moment. You have to choose joy amid challenges. And I know it’s easier said than done. But as always I won’t let you hang by simply telling you to “choose joy”. Instead, I am providing you with practical steps. Below are 10 of the things that I did over the last few years that have helped me be a happy single Christian woman. Single Christian women’s guide to enjoying life. 1. Build/ deepen your relationship with God. Question. How do you know if you are good at being in a serious relationship? I remember asking myself that for years. You see I had never been in a loving, healthy relationship. And while I could look to others for an idea, I wanted to experience it myself. Fast forward a few years and now I am certain that I would be good at it. Why? Because I have experienced God’s love and forged a beautiful relationship with Him. A relationship that is based on honesty and trust and encourages total vulnerability. A thriving relationship with Christ will help you prepare for marriage. Because it teaches you that a relationship shouldn’t be performance-based but built on commitment and sacrifice. The truth is the relationships that we see on social media or even in the Christian community only give us a highlight reel of what love should look like. But the Bible tells us what God’s design is for love. After all, he is the author of love and who we should strive to emulate in intimate relationships. 2. Live a full life. As I already mentioned above, I’m pretty proud of my simple life. At age 29 I have traveled to more than 23 countries, lived in 7 countries, and experienced a lot of adventures. And that’s only because I refuse to wait for the right man to come into my life before I do things I always wanted to do. I proudly maintain a “Single’s bucket list”. And that bucket list isn’t any different from my general bucket list. Because I’m committed to living a full life. And so should you. Go on the trip, visit that restaurant, and buy the house! Life is too short to wait for anybody. And if you really have certain experiences you’d enjoy better with company, then figure out if it is something you can do with family members or your best friend. Don’t make the mistake to wait, when you could be living. 3. Pursue your purpose. My favorite tip in this guide for single Christian women is to pursue your purpose! What other interests do you have in life besides work, school, and church? Don’t get me wrong, all three of these are important and it’s good that they play a big role in your life. But what else do you like? What are the unique causes and things God has put on your heart? You see, I didn’t know I was called to help women navigate singleness until I started writing. And now single Christians all over the world find my website and enjoy it. Your purpose is something that will encourage you but also make your day more enjoyable. Because it tabs into your God-given gifts and talents and will possibly affect your entire life. So use this season to go on a spiritual journey that helps you find your purpose. So that once you find your godly man you have even more to share with him. 4.













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